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Less Stimulus, More Sleep Please.

Step away from electronics

Feeling tired? Join the club!

Millions of Americans suffer from sleep depravation. Many have no choice because they have to work more than two jobs or maybe because they have to work and attend school. Others is because they are single parents or because they have to care for others. All of these are understandable situations. But whats the excuse for those of us who have only one job, no real extracurricular activities or care for others? Lets chat about that.

Each of us is responsible for our own well being. Thats the first thing to understand. When we choose to keep our eyes glued to the tv or to our personal gadgets, we have no one to blame but us. The truth is that more and more we immerse ourselves in social media or binge on shows that take away from our sleep time.

I dont want to sound like a broken record but if you find yourself tired and its not due to some medical condition or one of the situations described above then maybe its time to do some self care? Maybe it’s time to care for you first and foremost. Are you in? I have a few suggestions that will help you with your rest and to create better sleeping habits.

First, lets set up a time to wind down. Choose a time that works with your schedule and stick to it. Turn your tv or gadgets off an hour before bedtime. Prepare yourself by taking a shower or bath, use essential oils or bath bombs to help you relax. If you’re achy, just use Epsom salt in a bath. Relax and meditate. Prayer and/or meditation works to help you focus and release tension from your body. Do what works for you. Visualize and tune yourself with your inner peace. Bring it forth and get your rest. Next, make sure your bed is clean and made, a messy bed with dirty sheets is no place to rest. Set the room temperature according to your preference. Lastly, turn off your phone notifications and the lights. Take a deep breath and go to sleep. Focus on your body and its needs. Your body needs rest so make an attempt to do this.

In time, with a consistent routine you will feel better and your body will know when bed time is approaching. It will let you know when you need to get to bed and start getting your routine together. Trust me, we are overworked, over binged and over stimulated. Its time to calm down and take care of us. Hope my blog helps you feel better and achieve a better nights sleep.

Til next time,

MJ Jones 🌜

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Dreaming

The time has finally come for me to begin my journey in writing. Like millions of other people, I too dream of becoming a writer. But, not just any writer, a world known writer.

How and where do I start? What should I write about? Will anyone read my blog?

This were the questions I had over 6 years ago. I had talked myself into becoming a blogger then, I stopped. Well, here we are in 2019 and I am just now finally starting my blog. I confess I felt scared and overwhelmed. Why would anyone be interested in what I write, right? Aren’t there lots and lots of bloggers, vloggers, freelancers and writers? Why would my thoughts matter? I had convinced myself that the thought of writing was simply ludicrous, it was dumb and a waste of time. But, as time went by, I realized that fear would stop me from my dream. Fear was a barrier and the root f my doubts. Fear has been the root of many of my fears and ultimately, my failures. Some of us were brought up with the mentality that we ought to make sure others accept us, accept our thoughts and ideas. This is a flawed way of parenting. I for one have changed how my kids see life and their own personal goals. I have made sure they are secure in their ideas, their own dreams. I no longer expect for everyone to enjoy what I write or to even look at my blog. I now understand that by simply choosing to “blog” I have crossed my comfort zone and can’t be more proud of myself. I will be blogging often, about most topics. I am a woman with her own mind that can’t be constrained to something specific, but rather I am like butterfly: moving from one flower to the next. How far will you go to reach your dream? What steps will you take?

With luv,

ThatMrsjones

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